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From Dr Lindsay Gibson’s insightful book Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents (EIPs) comes a powerful resource: the Bill of Rights. Whether you’re navigating challenges with emotionally immature parents or others in your life – whenever you find yourself doubting your value or your right to express yourself, take a moment to read this. These affirmations are here to ground and empower you. It’s a compassionate step toward reclaiming your sense of self.
the bill of rights

Understanding your past and your resilience is an essential step toward healing and growth. Below, you’ll find two free tools designed to provide insights into your experiences and inner strengths:
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) Questionnaire


The ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences) test, from the CDC-Kaiser study, measures childhood trauma and its link to adult health and social outcomes. It includes 10 specific experiences, with a higher score indicating increased risks of emotional, social, and physical challenges later in life. Understanding your ACE score can be a transformative step toward healing and breaking cycles of generational trauma.
Adverse Childhood Experiences can leave lasting effects. However, protective factors – such as supportive relationships and coping strategies – act as buffers, helping us unload the weight of early trauma and build resilience. This questionnaire invites you to explore these protective elements, empowering you to nurture strengths and foster emotional resilience.
Resilience Factors Questionnaire


The Ultimate Guide to Positive Thinking


Positive affirmations are a powerful tool for building ourselves up and navigating emotional waves with resilience. The thoughts we think and the words we choose shape how we feel and act.
Discover how positive affirmations can support you in cultivating greater wellbeing and self-compassion.
A way to use this diary may be to just notice the moments you feel unpleasant emotions like fear, anger, sadness but also to notice when you experience pleasant emotions like joy, excitement, or serenity. Then write down what your thoughts, feelings,, body sensations, and actions are/were in the moment.
You may begin to get more in touch with your inner world and perhaps start to notice patterns…
Emotional Awareness Diary


This worksheet is designed to help you identify and challenge unhelpful thoughts, paving the way for healthier patterns of thinking and behaviour. It’s a practical tool to support you in navigating difficult emotions and fostering positive change.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy Worksheet
